Fathers Should Lead

“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath; but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Ephesians 6:4

The state of Washington celebrated the nation’s first Father’s Day on June 19, 1910. However, the day honoring fathers did not become a nationwide holiday in the United States until 1972 – 58 years after President Woodrow Wilson made Mother’s Day official.

Regardless of our relationship with our mothers, our society has always held them in high esteem as the nurturing parent. Fathers were important, but in a role more distant to the hands-on child care. In today’s world, we see more stay-at-home dads with mothers taking on the primary financial burden. Neither of these views are what God had in mind when He created the family. Both parents are to share equally in the responsibility of raising a child. Each reflects a side of God that, when brought together, shows His love for us.

The responsibility of fathers is to lead. They are not only the physical leader of the family, but are to be the spiritual leader as well. What better way to lead than by example. There is truth in the old adage of “Actions speak louder than words.” If you want children that are strong in faith, show them the proper path forward.

To be this example, always seek wisdom. Recognize the power that God has to mold and shape individual perspectives. Know that essential wisdom and knowledge from God can be passed on to children. Embrace the power of the truth of the gospel.

Fathers need to reassure their children that just as they will be there for them, God will always be there. No matter the struggle, God never abandons humanity. Sometimes discipline is required. Understand that at times this can be painful, but essential for teaching the importance of making good choices.

Above all, understand and embrace love. To see what true love looks like, read 1 Corinthians 13:4-13. The Lords tells husbands to love their wives. Compare the power of that devotion to Jesus’ love for the church. Let this love serve as a model for your children as a basis for God’s love for them and a healthy and fulfilling marriage in their future.

As we celebrate Father’s Day, let us honor the men who received the gift and responsibility of raising children. Pray for their strength to be an example of faith, showing God’s love in words and actions.