Sunday, June 20, 2021

Honor

“Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth."—Ephesians 6:2-3

I was blessed to be raised by godly parents. They were also raised by godly parents, so there were more generations to draw from for learning. I believe that my dad felt the burden of his leadership role more acutely than other men. He was seriously injured in a car wreck before my parents married and he wasn’t sure how long he would be able to support his family. Determination to lead in every aspect of the role of husband and father gave our family a man of integrity who lived by faith in Christ. A man whom I loved dearly and was proud to call my dad.

In his letter to the Ephesians, Paul exhorts children to honor their father and mother. This was one of the Ten Commandments and the first one with a promise. It is connected with one of the first things a child should learn in life. Honor your parents by obeying them. This is not only right, but it contains a two-fold promise: (1) It will be well with you, and (2) You will live long on the earth.

Obedience is an essential building block for childhood and continuing to live godly in adulthood. The commandment to honor our father and mother is important. The other commands had no promise attached to them. This is significant.

Watching my parents honor my grandparents gave me insight into this commandment. They never hesitated to show them the respect due as father and mother. No greater example could have been given to me. I only hope that I, in turn, honored them.

Each of my parents left me with memories unique to them. My dad has been gone now for 32 years. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of him and something I learned from him. He hurt every day of my life but never complained. 

Happy Father’s Day in heaven, Dad.

Dear Lord,
Thank You for giving me parents and grandparents who lived their faith.

Sunday, June 6, 2021

A Firm Foundation

 “Therefore, whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.
And everyone that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand:
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.”— Matthew 7: 24-27

The name of Edward Mote doesn’t often bring a list of favorite hymns to mind for the Church today. At least not like the names of Fanny J. Crosby or B.B. McKinney will. However, Mr. Mote wrote one of our most cherished hymns, The Solid Rock, and just as with so many others, each verse reinforces biblical doctrine. Jesus is our rock, our firm foundation. All hope is built on Him.

Edward Mote’s testimony should inspire all Christians. He wasn’t brought up in a godly home. His parents managed a pub in London, and as a boy, Edward would spend most of his Sundays playing in the city streets. His words about his theological upbringing were, “So ignorant was I that I did not know that there was a God.”

His life changed when he was apprenticed to a Christian cabinet maker. Under the influence of this man, Edward was exposed to the Word of God and was baptized at the age of 18. Even though he went on to become a successful cabinet maker himself—his career for the next 37 years—he always found time to worship God. Eventually, at the age of 55, he became the pastor of a Baptist church in Horsham, Sussex. He didn’t miss a Sunday in the pulpit for the next 21 years until ill health brought his resignation in 1873. He died the following year at the age of 77.

Mr. Mote was especially interested in Christian music. While walking to work one morning in 1834, it entered his mind to write a hymn. Over the course of that day, he wrote not only a chorus but six verses as well. Later, those six verses were combined and strengthened into the four we have today. The original title was The Immutable Basis of a Sinner’s Hope. When it was published in a collection of hymns in 1863, the tune Solid Rock, composed by William B. Bradbury, was paired with it. That is the beautiful song in our hymnals today.

Several contemporary artists have taken this sacred hymn and combined it with the equally powerful song, In Christ Alone. What a testimony song for every Christian. In Christ alone we stand. He is our solid rock and firm foundation.

Dear Lord, 
Thank you for giving me a firm foundation that will not be shaken. I will hold fast to You alone.

Thursday, December 31, 2020

Bless the Lord

 “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name.”  Psalm 103:1

We are standing on the threshold of another new year. The past year has brought sorrow and happiness to each of our lives. Events and memories that we carry forward as we face new challenges. Even though we can’t foresee what lies ahead, we can be assured that we won’t face it alone. Our Lord knows the future and walks with us.

The book of Psalms is of particular comfort to me when I am troubled. The Psalms flow with such emotion. Prayers and praise. They speak of real life and the struggle of reaching out to God, but also give us the encouragement to walk closely with Him. Hope and peace are found in the Lord and we can celebrate His goodness. When everything around us seems to crumble and despair overwhelms our hearts, lift His name in praise. Bless His holy name.

Some of the most memorized and quoted verses of the Bible are found in the book of Psalms. They offer light and truth. A balm to our hurts and fill our hearts with song during our personal worship time.

Many of the Psalms have become “scripture songs” that contain a partial or entire direct quote of scripture. These songs are short and designed for easy memorization so they can be sung as long as the Spirit moves. Andrae Crouch wrote such a song, Bless His Holy Name, using Psalm 103:1 in 1973. It became a staple of his repertoire and is still a blessing today. 

My prayer for everyone is that, whatever we find in the days to come, we will realize the blessings of God in our lives. That there will be comfort found in the Word of God, love found with family and friends, and hope found in our Lord Jesus Christ.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for giving me another year. Help me live each day as a reflection of You.

 

Friday, December 25, 2020

Savior

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
"For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.” — John 3: 16-17

Every year, the Christmas season brings a flurry of new holiday movies with the hope that they will become new favorites and join the classics that return for another repeat performance. While the Spirit of Christmas is captured, not all tell the true story. The religious story. Christ’s story.

Recently, I had the chance to watch a cute, animated, film that originally appeared in movie theaters in November of 2017 — The Star. The main character is a little donkey who dreams of becoming a part of the royal caravan. Through a series of events, he ends up with Mary and Joseph at the stable. There, he realizes that the king he was destined to serve is his creator. 

Amidst the chaos and confusion, trials and troubles, the Savior came. God’s gift to the world. His one and only son, Jesus. Our Redeemer. 

So many people looked forward to the coming of the Messiah. Just like the little donkey, they dreamed of being part of a royal caravan. An earthly kingdom. Only a handful of shepherds found their way to the stable to bow before the true king. 

God so loved, He gave. Wholly and freely, He gave. Salvation from sin, offered to all.

Dear Lord, 
Thank you for loving me so much. Help me live a life that reflects You.


Sunday, December 20, 2020

"His Name is Wonderful"

 “For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God , The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.”  — Isaiah 9:6

The Christmas season is my favorite time of year. Memories of my childhood flood my mind with every Christmas song I hear. Those especially close to my heart are the hymns. Christmas Eve candlelight services and the joy of the children’s programs carry their own special blessing. There is a peace and closeness to the Savior that gives comfort in the midst of a troubled world.

Too often, we get caught up in the material side of the season. The gift-giving, the party-going, and the decorations. While these are fun, they can also distract from the purpose of celebration. Many times, we can fall short in our gift-giving, but God gave us His most precious and perfect gift. His Son.

One of my favorite hymns, “His Name is Wonderful,” was composed by Audrey Mieir in 1955. Watching the children’s Nativity scene during their Christmas program at church and following the sermon afterward, went deep into her soul. At the conclusion of reading the scripture Isaiah 9:6, her pastor lifted his hands, closed his eyes, and said “His name is wonderful.” Mrs. Mieir quickly wrote the words on the flyleaf of her Bible three times, then added the name of her Lord. A few days later, she completed all of the music and a fuller description of Jesus.

Not only are the words of this song a personal testimony of the relationship between Mrs. Mieir and Jesus, but it also captures the testimony of every Christian. How praiseworthy He is. Let us bow down, love, and adore Him.

Audrey Mieir died in 1996 at the age of 80. Some of her last words were: “‘His Name is Wonderful’ will outlive the chubby human hands chosen to write a few black notes on five lines and four spaces. But it will never outlive the Father who glories in His Son’s name and who glories in our praise.”

Dear Lord,
     You are the Word made flesh and I’m filled with wonder and praise. I bow before Your throne of grace and proclaim You King.

Monday, December 14, 2020

A little bit of everything good!

Anthologies

Blackbirds First Flight
By Various Authors

⇨ An unhappy wife can't decide what to do about her boorish husband until an uneaten meal gives her a dark idea...
⇨ Something is raising zombies in Tulsa, and Justina Grave is the only one who can stop it...
⇨ When a fat farm promises to make Edyth thin again, her dream comes true. She will never be fat again—or safe...
⇨ Hopping a freight train can be a cheap way to travel. Unless you pick the wrong boxcar...
⇨ One kiss gives Francois immortality, but at a cost he doesn't see coming...
⇨ A woman warrior must choose her fate as the Romans ravage her land...
⇨ Stalked by terrible creatures seeking vengeance, a band of robbers runs for their lives in medieval France...
This anthology will lead you into dark, twisted places filled with mystery and delight. Enjoy thrilling stories and chilling poems by authors Stephen B. Bagley, Kent Bass, Wendy Blanton, Gail Henderson, Tamara Siler Jones, and Jean Schara.
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Blackbirds Second Flight
by Various Authors
Enjoy new dark and twisted stories and poems from Stephen B. Bagley, Wendy Blanton, Gail Henderson, Ken Lewis, Jean Schara, and Heath Stallcup
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Blackbirds Third Flight
by Various Authors
Enjoy these dark fantasies:
✥ A dead girl asks one final question.
✥ A young man rides a forbidden dragon.
✥ With claw and fang, Malone will fight.
✥ Justina Grave battles a dangerous witch.
✥ A father faces his family's terrible secret.
✥ The end of the world begins in a backyard.
✥ A predator prowls on Halloween night.
✥ Thunder Mountain will kill the careless.
✥ Learn the final truth of the Tooth Fairy.
✥ A wolf reveals the face of the true beast.
And much more in this anthology of thrilling tales and poetry from Kathy Akins, Stephen B. Bagley, Wendy Blanton, Michael Canton, D.E. Chandler, Erin Cochran, Gail Henderson, Mariana Llanos, Jean Schara, and Heath Stallcup.
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Prosateurs: Tales & Truth 
by the Prosateurs
Enjoy articles, essays, memoirs, poems, recipes, short stories, and more from members of the Prosateurs writing group, including
➼ 13 Ways to be More Creative in your life.
How NOT to curse like a sailor.
➼ A daughter endures her mother melting away.
What's alive in that garage can?
➼ How to bake a Fruit Cocktail Cake.
Relish a sonnet for Autumn.
➼ Learn the amazing secret of the Thanksgiving Tree.
How do you deal with doubt?
➼ An Air Force wife confronts her future.
Special Bonus: Prosateurs share Writing Tips.
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Yule Tidings

by the Prosateurs

The Prosateurs celebrate Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's with articles, devotionals, essays, memoirs, poems, recipes, short stories, including:
Be the Hostess with the Mostest!
Enjoy Tasty Christmas Sausage Balls
Awake Prayer and Thanksgiving!
Marvel at the Ancient Yuletide Origins!

Listen to the Christmas Bells Sing!
Survive the Holidays with Ease!
When Does One Plus One Equal Eleven?
The Other Serving Girl Tells her Tale!
The Turducken Hits the Fan!
Realize You're Not Poor at All!

And much more!
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Sunday, October 4, 2020

Love Them Anyway

“And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover a multitude of sins.” 1 Peter 4:8

I am a dog person. There has been at least one in my household as far back as I can remember. Always my special companion and best friend. Growing up in the country, we also had cats, but they were designated as “barn cats.” I interacted with them in a totally different way than with my dogs. I liked them, but on a different level of understanding.

A year ago, a little orange and white kitten decided that he would adopt my family. This included six dogs, one of which detested cats. Knowing the danger he faced, I did my best to run him off. After an unsuccessful month, I made him an appointment with the vet to have him neutered and vaccinated. He would be part of the family in spite of the difficulties ahead.

As I have watched the attitude changes from hostility to tolerance, to acceptance, to playfulness, I realized that Christians deal with some of the same attitudes with each other. Yes, we are all part of the family of God, but our personalities don’t automatically mesh because of it. We are still individuals with likes and dislikes that sometimes cause hurt feelings when complaints are given voice to.
 
How do we, as followers of Christ, overcome the hurt or hard feelings toward a fellow believer? We must make demonstrating the love of Jesus toward others our first priority. We all suffer from imperfection. We still fail to obey God at times. When another believer has offended us, love allows us to overlook the hurt and build each other up.

Keep using God’s gifts to serve one another. It is difficult for resentment to flourish in a community that is rich in Christ-like love. Just like my dogs accepted the cat and his quirky personality, Christians can accept that God calls us according to His purpose and each person has a place in the family. 

Dear Lord,
Thank you for my community of fellow believers. Help me overcome any past hurts and encourage them through Your power.

Sunday, August 9, 2020

Despite being "social distanced," Paul writes of joy

“I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 3:14 (KJV) 

August. Usually, the hottest month of our Oklahoma summer and the beginning of a new school year. The time when life settles back into a routine. Teachers, parents, and children look forward to it. But, this is 2020 and we are still dealing with the pandemic. 

Social distancing seems to be the most effective way to limit the spread of this virus. However, humans are social creatures, and the “distancing” is starting to take a toll on many of us.

I have recently taken up the challenge to read through the book of Philippians every day for three weeks. Each day, I write down five things I learn from my reading.

This book has always been a favorite of mine because Paul writes so encouragingly to the church of Philippi. His affection for and appreciation of these believers is evident. 

Writing from a Roman prison, Paul has been forced into an extreme “social distancing” situation but still finds joy in the Lord. His faithfulness to Christ opened the door to others, who would not have heard the Gospel otherwise.

Paul portrayed Jesus Christ as a humble servant. This is the core of his teachings in this letter to the Philippians as he urges believers to live out their faith in joy and unity. 

Living in harmony can only come through mutual humility as modeled by Jesus Christ.

Centering our lives on Christ Jesus will allow true joy to fill our lives. As we pursue the spiritual prize promised by God, the strife and troubles of this earth will fade in importance and our peace will increase.

Let us be content in our circumstances, for we know they are temporary, and find joy in the Lord.

Dear Lord, Thank you for reminding me that the troubles of this world are temporary and true joy comes from You.  

Saturday, July 4, 2020

The Cost of Libery

"Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage."ー Galatians 5:1  (KJV)

As we celebrate July 4th, 2020, our nation seems to be consumed with fear and controversy. Historic figures and statues honoring leaders of our past are being dismantled and defaced. An effort to erase the ugly parts of our nation’s history has exposed the dangerous attitude that all citizens should be held accountable for the dreadful actions of a few.

When compared to other nations of the world, America is still a new country. The principles established by the Continental Congress were drawn from a strongly held belief that liberty was a gift from God. This gift should be available to all people. It was a gift worth fighting for – and dying for.

Our 66th U.S. Secretary of State, Condoleezza Rice, defined America like this:
“The essence of America – that which really unites us – is not ethnicity, or nationality, or religion. It is an idea – and what an idea it is: that you can come from humble circumstances and do great things. That it doesn’t matter where you came from, but where you are going.”

I love my country and am blessed that God saw fit to put me in this place and time. My concern for the chaos reported daily by news media, is that those trying to destroy the past will doom us to repeat it. History must be remembered to learn from the mistakes made.

Without God, we are destined to continue through life in turmoil. Ultimate liberty can only be found in Christ. He has already paid the highest price for our freedom and offers it as a free gift. In the confusion of world events, Christ offers peace.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for the peace and freedom from the chaos of this world. I pray that others will see you in me.

Sunday, June 21, 2020

A True Father

“I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” — 3 John 4

As I pondered the Father’s Day celebration this month, many memories of my own father flooded my mind. Wonderful memories of a man who took his role as a husband and father seriously. I’m sure he stumbled and had faults. He was human. But, through this daughter’s eyes, he could fix any problem, mend any hurt, and protect against any enemy. He was my dad.

When we look at biblical fathers, the one that stands out for me is Joseph. Perhaps one of the most overlooked, yet greatest examples of a true father. His role was crucial in God’s plan for Jesus to fulfill His earthly destiny. Without Joseph, a pregnant Mary would not have had protection and Jesus would have been denied the love and leadership of a man of God.

God chose Joseph because he had a strong love for the Lord. That love would support Jesus’ formal and informal learning as he grew. Joseph’s involvement in the physical, spiritual, and emotional well being of Jesus had a great impact.

Just like Joseph, today’s fathers can continue to set an example for their children. Daily choices and actions teach and every decision affects the future of a child.

It is difficult for children to begin to understand the heart of God without the leadership of a man who loves and fears and worships the Lord.

In his book, How to Raise Your Children for Christ, Andrew Murray said “Every experience of the love and blessing of a home on earth can be a ladder by which to rise up and get nearer to the Great Father-heart in heaven.”

As a father, each man plays a distinct and important role in the lives and future of the children God placed in his care

Dear Lord, Thank you for placing a true father in my life, His example pointed to You always.

Sunday, May 10, 2020

A Praying Mother Lifts Up Her Children

“For God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labour of love, which ye have shewed toward his name, in that ye have ministered to the saints, and to minister.” Hebrews 6:10 (KJV)

Much good can and has been said about a woman who prays. Evidence of a prayerful heart is carried through her attitude toward others and in dealing with daily life events. But a praying mother lifts her children up to the Lord in an unceasing labor of love.

One of the most popular examples of a praying mother in the Bible is Hannah, the mother of Samuel. She shows us that even when things are hard to see and understand what God is doing, we can be confident that He hears our prayers and is at work. Hannah was faithful and committed to God’s plan and sovereignty.

A more modern example of a praying mother is Susanna Wesley. She bore 19 children, but only 10 survived infancy. Of the surviving children, were three sons: Samuel, John, and Charles. The family faced poverty and hunger, accidents, and illness. Still, Susanna prayed for her children and led them in family devotions. She educated them for six hours per day of home school but was also intent on making her children disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ. She too was faithful and committed to God’s plan and sovereignty.

These two women were centuries apart, but they had these things in common with today’s praying mothers:
● They knew to take their concerns and problems to the Lord.
● They knew that God’s timing is always perfect.
● They knew that God has the power and ability to work on their behalf.
● They believed God would do what He said He would do and He has the final word.
● They praised God for His faithfulness.

Just as God never changes, we can be confident that He hears our prayers and is at work. He is secure and holds us steady, even when we can’t see past the present situation.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for the blessing of a praying mother and the love and example she gave.  

Friday, November 1, 2019

YULE TIDINGS ON SALE NOW!

Yule Tidings, the latest anthology from the writing group Prosateurs, is on sale now. The holiday-themed anthology celebrates Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s with works of fiction and nonfiction.

“Besides making the perfect Christmas gift, Yule Tidings is great for planning your parties and get-togethers, too,” said Kathy Akins, Prosateurs vice president. “We have articles on easy party preparations and, of course, delicious recipes. And the stories, memoirs, essays, and poems will get you into the holiday spirit. It’s the perfect book to curl up with.”

Yule Tidings features works from these authors:

Kathy Akins has won several awards with her poetry, devotionals, and short fiction. Her short stories and poetry have been published in Prosateurs: Tales & Truth, Blackbirds Third Flight, Creations 2015, and Creations 2014. She is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc., Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators, and American Christian Fiction Writers. Visit her website at kathyakins.blogspot.com.

Debbie Anderson wrote the suspense novel Friend or Foe in 2018. Its sequel, Predators Among Us, will be published in early 2020. She writes short stories, memoirs, novels, children’s stories, and how-to books. She has been published in Prosateurs: Tales & Truth, Creations 2018, and Creations 2017.

Stephen B. Bagley's latest book is Floozy Comes Back, a collection of humorous essays. He co-wrote Undying, a book of dark poetry. His other books include: Murder by Dewey Decimal, Murder by the Acre, Tales from Bethlehem, Floozy and Other Stories, and Endless. His plays include: Murder at the Witch’s Cottage, Two Writers in the Hands of an Angry God, There’s a Body in the Closet, and Hogwild. His poetry, articles, short stories, and essays have appeared in Prosateurs: Tales & Truth, Writer’s Digest, Blackbirds First Flight, Blackbirds Second Flight, Blackbirds Third Flight, ByLine Magazine, Nautilus Magazine, Pontotoc County Chronicles, Tulsa World’s OKMagazine, Free Star, Dark Prairies & Deep Rivers, the Creations anthologies 2012-2015, and other publications. He is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc. Visit his website at StephenBBagley.blogspot.com.

Wendy Blanton wrote Dawn Before the Dark, the first book in a fantasy trilogy, which was published by the Christian fantasy publisher Bear Publications in the fall of 2019. She also co-wrote three fantasy novels, The Dragon’s Lady, Rogue Pawn, and Sword and Scabbard, under the name Elizabeth Joy. Her short stories, articles, and recipes have appeared in Prosateurs: Tales & Truth, Blackbirds First Flight, Blackbirds Second Flight, and Blackbirds Third Flight. She is a member of Realm Makers and Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc. Visit her website at wendyblanton.com.

Debra E. Chandler’s debut novel, Bone Sliver, was published in 2015, and the sequel, Nova Wave, in 2018. Weathered, a collection of her short works and poems, was also released in 2018. Her short stories, poems, photographs, and articles were also published in Prosateurs: Tales & Truth, Blackbirds Third Flight, The Green Country Guardian, The Sapulpa Herald, and Sapulpa News and Views. She is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc. and Oklahoma Bloggers and Influencers. Visit her website at dechandlerwrites.com.

Barbara Shepherd is the 2019 Voice of the Fair Poet, the Poetry Society of Oklahoma’s 2019 Poet Laureate, and recipient of more than 350 writing awards in local, regional, national, and international contests. Her books include: The Potbelly Pig Promise, River Bend, Vittles and Vignettes, and Patchwork Skin. Her writing has also appeared in: State Cops Cooking in the Heartland - More Than We Can Say Grace Over, Candle Flames: PSO’s 70th Anniversary Anthology, Oklahoma Centennial Heritage Collection, Harp Strings, A Centennial Celebration of Oklahoma Stories, travelin’ Music, Elegant Rage, Poetry Is For Everyone, Imagination Turned Loose, Beads On a String–Peace, Joy, and Love, From the Heart of Galaxy, Ain't Gonna Be Treated This Way, and other publications. Visit her website at barbarashepherd.com.

Joanne Verbridge was born in Oakland, California, spending her early life experiences in Northern California. Family brought her to Oklahoma where she enjoys writing memoirs and crafting. She works to inspire her young nieces to take an interest in storytelling and writing. Her memoirs, short stories, and articles have been published in newspapers and Prosateurs: Tales & Truth, Creations 2015, Creations 2014, Creations 2013, and Creations 2012.

Yule Tidings is now available at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, BooksAMillion, Lulu, and other online retailers, and from the Prosateurs members while supplies last. For more information, including book signing dates and locations, visit Prosateurs.blogspot.com.

Sunday, June 16, 2019

Fathers Should Lead

“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath; but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Ephesians 6:4

The state of Washington celebrated the nation’s first Father’s Day on June 19, 1910. However, the day honoring fathers did not become a nationwide holiday in the United States until 1972 – 58 years after President Woodrow Wilson made Mother’s Day official.

Regardless of our relationship with our mothers, our society has always held them in high esteem as the nurturing parent. Fathers were important, but in a role more distant to the hands-on child care. In today’s world, we see more stay-at-home dads with mothers taking on the primary financial burden. Neither of these views are what God had in mind when He created the family. Both parents are to share equally in the responsibility of raising a child. Each reflects a side of God that, when brought together, shows His love for us.

The responsibility of fathers is to lead. They are not only the physical leader of the family, but are to be the spiritual leader as well. What better way to lead than by example. There is truth in the old adage of “Actions speak louder than words.” If you want children that are strong in faith, show them the proper path forward.

To be this example, always seek wisdom. Recognize the power that God has to mold and shape individual perspectives. Know that essential wisdom and knowledge from God can be passed on to children. Embrace the power of the truth of the gospel.

Fathers need to reassure their children that just as they will be there for them, God will always be there. No matter the struggle, God never abandons humanity. Sometimes discipline is required. Understand that at times this can be painful, but essential for teaching the importance of making good choices.

Above all, understand and embrace love. To see what true love looks like, read 1 Corinthians 13:4-13. The Lords tells husbands to love their wives. Compare the power of that devotion to Jesus’ love for the church. Let this love serve as a model for your children as a basis for God’s love for them and a healthy and fulfilling marriage in their future.

As we celebrate Father’s Day, let us honor the men who received the gift and responsibility of raising children. Pray for their strength to be an example of faith, showing God’s love in words and actions.

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

2018 Prosateurs Christmas Gift Catalog

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Saturday, August 11, 2018

The Loveless Church

“I know thy works, and thy labour, and thy patience, and how thou canst not bear them which are evil: and thou hast tried them which say they are apostles, and are not, and hast found them liars:
And hast borne, and hast patience, and for my name’s sake hast labored, and hast not fainted.
Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love.”
Revelation 2:2-4


A few years ago there was a British comedy called Keeping Up Appearances. The main character, Hyacinth, wanted so badly to be part of high society, that she would regularly get herself and her husband, Richard, into an embarrassing situation by pretending it was so. She looked good on the outside, but when you examined deeper, trouble brewed within.

The book of Revelation is one of the most popular and neglected books of the Bible. It is scary because many who read it don’t understand the symbols and imagery. To make it simple, there are two things to remember when reading Revelation:

* The focus is on the vision of Jesus. He is the front and center of what this book is all about. He is victorious and so shall we be.
* It fits partly into the genre of “apocalypse.” This genre almost always deals with judgment and end-times themes.

In chapter two, Jesus is instructing the Apostle John to write letters to seven churches. Each one was dealing with issues that required repentance or encouragement. The first one addressed was the church of Ephesus.

From the outside, this was a strong church. They were keeping up appearances. They had been doing the right things and fighting the battles for so long.  It’s possible that some of the older members were getting tired. Perhaps some of the younger members didn’t feel like they could devote the time required to maintain the various ministries. Maybe they didn’t feel qualified. Their devotion to Christ was waning and they were crumbling from the inside out.

This can happen to some of the most faithful and devoted churches, if the focus becomes the ministries of the church rather than the love of Christ. It can also happen just as easily to an individual Christian.

The church of Ephesus was called upon to refocus on Christ. To return to their first love. The works of ministry are a result of loving Jesus, not the other way around. We are called to do the same. Love develops devotion. Devotion develops sharing. Sharing develops ministering to others.

We Christians need to return to our first love. When we do, keeping up appearances no longer brings trouble and trials, but joy and peace in Christ.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for reminding us that to focus on You allows everything else to fall into place.

Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Biblical Friendship

“ And David saw that Saul was come out to seek his life: and David was in the wilderness of Ziph in a wood.
 And Jonathan Saul’s son arose, and went to David into the wood, and strengthened his hand in God.” 1 Samuel 23:15-16

Many wise and intelligent scholars, doctors, and scientists have studied the subject of relationships for years. A chemical in the brain is said to trigger the level of response and the type of love for those who share a bond. The interesting thing about this is that it’s not unique to humans. Animals feel love too. They can have relationships with other animals and with humans. Our Lord has instilled that emotion in all creatures.

Friendship is probably the best word to describe how the seed of love grows to become a relationship. As it grows, it will branch out into different paths. Some friendships last for a season during a time of transition, such as school or a job. Others will last a lifetime through many seasons of good times and hard times. We need all levels of relationships in our lives, but the truest reflection of God’s love is biblical friendship.

The story of the bond between Jonathan and David is an excellent example of such friendship. Love, stronger than a blood kinship, knit these two men together. They shared a love for God and recognized the role each of them would play in the Lord’s plan for the Israelites.

Biblical friendship isn’t limited to the Old and New Testaments, however. Here are three defining characteristics of a biblical friend:

Be present. Provide an arm to lean on, an ear to listen, and a heart to care. Just as Jonathan was there to support David, present in his time of trouble, we can give that presence too.

Pray every day for your friend. Talk to God on your friend’s behalf. God already knows the needs, but this keeps you aware of it, too. The more you share the burden, the lighter the load will become.

Protect through reassurance. Encourage your friend with the knowledge that all is possible with our Lord. Many times, the stress of life will cause one to retreat into a world of isolation.

Jonathan was there to help David through one of the darkest times of his young life. He was present. He prayed and protected his friend. The love of God reflected in his actions. We can follow this biblical friend’s example in our own lives.
       
Dear Lord,
Thank you for the biblical friends in my life. Help me to follow the example of Jonathan and David.

Sunday, June 10, 2018

Saturday, June 9, 2018

"Country Life"


Enjoy this new anthology from the Prosateurs! Inside its covers, you'll find short stories, recipes, humor, articles, memoirs, and more!

Friday, June 8, 2018

"Unexpected"


Enjoy this new anthology from the Prosateurs! Inside its covers, you'll find short stories, recipes, humor, articles, memoirs, and more!

Thursday, June 7, 2018

Wednesday, June 6, 2018

"Autumn Sonnet"


Enjoy this new anthology from the Prosateurs! Inside its covers, you'll find short stories, recipes, humor, articles, memoirs, and more!

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Monday, June 4, 2018

Sunday, June 3, 2018

"Melting Away"


Enjoy this new anthology from the Prosateurs! Inside its covers, you'll find short stories, recipes, humor, articles, memoirs, and more!

Saturday, June 2, 2018

Friday, June 1, 2018

New Anthology Released!

OKLAHOMA—The writing group Prosateurs announces the publication of the judged anthology Prosateurs: Tales & Truth. The anthology features short stories, recipes, humor, memoirs, poetry, devotionals, articles, and other works from the group’s members. It’s now available from Prosateurs members and online at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, BooksAMillion, and other retailers.

Author Kathy Akins won Best of the Book with a memoir of her mother’s battle with dementia. “It was honest, sincere, and well-written,” said Submissions Judge Gail Henderson. “A reader both sympathizes and learns from it.”

Henderson co-wrote the poetry collection Undying. She collaborated with noted Oklahoma photographer Michael Duncan to produce Bare, a book of poetry and photography that explores the enigma of womanhood in the world. She wrote Red Bird Woman, a collection of her poetry under the name Gail Wood. Her work has appeared in Blackbirds First Flight, Blackbirds Second Flight, Blackbirds Third Flight, Creations 2012-2014 and ByLine Magazine. She holds a Masters of Education in English and Social Studies from East Central University. Currently she serves on the Board of Directors for Lake Superior Writers, Duluth, Minnesota.

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The anthology authors include:

Kathy Akins has won several awards with her poetry, devotionals, and short fiction. Her works were published in Blackbirds Third Flight and the Creations anthologies 2014-2015. A love for history, family, and animals inspires her stories. She lives in Oklahoma and shares her home with miniature long-haired dachshunds and a rescued Catahoula. Her dachshunds assist her when she presents educational programs for children in her capacity as an American Kennel Club (AKC) Canine Ambassador. She is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc., Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators, and American Christian Fiction Writers. Visit kathyakins.blogspot.com.

Debbie Anderson wrote the novel Friend or Foe in 2018. A longtime storyteller, she has written stories since she was a child. The oldest of eight children she used these stories to entertain her siblings. She spent eighteen years in the travel industry. As a result she has been to nearly every state and six countries. She left the travel business after 9/11. Since then she has written business documents such as manuals and procedures for the electronic and oil industries. She writes short stories, memoirs, novels, children’s stories, and how-to books. She has been published in Creations 2017.

Stephen B. Bagley co-wrote the poetry collection Undying. He wrote Murder by Dewey Decimal, Murder by the Acre, Tales from Bethlehem, Floozy and Other Stories, and EndlesS. He wrote the plays Murder at the Witch’s Cottage and Two Writers in the Hands of an Angry God and co-wrote Turnabout, Hogwild, and There’s A Body in the Closet. His writings have appeared in Writer’s Digest, Blackbirds First Flight, Blackbirds Second Flight, Blackbirds Third Flight, ByLine Magazine, Nautilus Magazine, Tulsa World OKMagazine, and other publications. He graduated from Oklahoma State University. He is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc. Visit StephenBBagley.blogspot.com.

Kelley Benson is a pastor who has a passion for using everyday opportunities to help people recognize how God works in their lives. He and his wife Jade are raising their  children to see how God should be part of everything people do. Since 1997, he has participated in a wide range of ministries and been involved with the investment industry, the insurance industry, teaching, and carpentry. He published On Target, a book of devotionals, and writes a weekly newsletter. His articles were published in Creations 2013-2015. He is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc. Visit kelleybenson.blogspot.com.

Nita Beshear began writing as a young child. If her family wasn't moving from one state to another, they were moving across town. Stories gave her continuity. Her friends in her stories went with her to every new home. Beshear writes nonfiction, historical novels, and short stories. Her books include Devoted to Quilting and Beyond the Grief: A Widow's Survival Guide. Her fiction appeared in Romance-The Spice of Life. She is a member of the Material Girls (the Allen Oklahoma Quilters), McAlester McSherry Writers, Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc., and Duncan and Okmulgee Toastmasters. Visit nitabeshear.wordpress.com.

Wendy Blanton published the novels, The Dragon’s Lady, Rogue Pawn, and Sword and Scabbard, under the name Elizabeth Joy. Her short stories appeared in Blackbirds First Flight, Blackbirds Second Flight, and Blackbirds Third Flight. She writes novels and short stories in several genres. She graduated from the University of Mount Olive, North Carolina, and served in the United States Air Force. An apprentice bard, she tells Celtic folk tales at Scottish Highland Games and other venues. She and her husband are members of the Clan Campbell Society. She is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc. Visit wendyblanton.wordpress.com.

D. E. Chandler wrote the thriller Bone Sliver. In 2013, her poem, “Oppenheimer” and her short story “One Way Window” won honorable mention and publication in Outside the Lines. In 2015, her poem “Carroll After Dark” won first place and publication in the Tulsa Review’s 2015 Spring contest issue. Her works were also published in Blackbirds Third Flight, The Green Country Guardian, The Sapulpa Herald, and Sapulpa News and Views. She graduated from Rogers State University. She lives with her husband Tom in Oklahoma. She is a member of Oklahoma Writers Federation, Inc. and Oklahoma Women Bloggers. Visit dechandlerwrites.com.

Barbara Shepherd has received more than 300 writing awards. She is the Oklahoma 2017 Voice of the Fair Poet, a Lone Stars Poet, a Woody Guthrie Poet, and a former Nominee for Poet Laureate of the State of Oklahoma. Shepherd served as a field editor for Taste of Home and contributed to other magazines, including: Outlook, Oklahoma D.O., Oklahoma Woman, Edmond Life and Leisure, Bella, and ArtBeat. Her books include: The Potbelly Pig Promise, River Bend, Vittles and Vignettes, and Patchwork Skin. Her writing appeared in: Women’s War Memoirs, Heavenly Patchwork, Voices In Time, and numerous other publications. Visit barbarashepherd.com.

Joanne Verbridge was born in Oakland, California, spending her early life experiences in Northern California. Family brought her to Oklahoma where she enjoys writing memoirs and crafting. She works to inspire her young nieces to take an interest in story telling and writing. Her memoirs, short stories, and articles have been published in Oklahoma newspapers and in the Creations anthologies 2012-2015.

Sunday, March 18, 2018

Perspective

“19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
20 For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.”  James 1:19-20


The tongue contains no bones. However, it is the most powerful muscle in the body. It's used for tasting, licking, and swallowing. And in humans, it’s used in articulating speech. Words – once said, cannot be unsaid. They can build a person’s confidence or destroy self-esteem. So powerful is the tongue.

Many of the challenges that the early Christians faced still confront us today. The Epistle of James is an important New Testament book for those who tend to see Christianity as just believing the right things. As James reminds us, that kind of faith is worthless. Only a faith that transforms us and our way of life is true.

The person with transforming faith will control his or her tongue. One will learn patience and think before words are spoken. A living faith can be expressed in the way we talk to others. Seek kind words and soon there will be no harsh thoughts to clutter our minds. Our works shall be a reflection of our faith in Jesus Christ.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for giving me the power of speech in order to praise You and share the gospel. Help me to use my tongue to encourage others. 

Saturday, February 10, 2018

Testimony

“But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become sons of God, even to them that believe on his name.” John 1:12  (KJV)

We all believe in something. Santa, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny are magical and fun for children. As we age, beliefs can turn into superstitions such as four-leaf clovers, horseshoes, and leprechauns bringing good luck, and black cats, broken mirrors, and walking under ladders bringing bad luck.

When Paul and Barnabas set out on their first missionary journey, they knew God was directing them to share the gospel with the Gentiles. The Holy Spirit gave them power to proclaim the message of Jesus boldly and without fear. Superstitions in a culture without the one true God were their biggest obstacles. Although many received the good news with open hearts, Paul and Barnabas also endured hunger, beatings, and rejection. Still, they gave testimony to the grace of God and salvation through Jesus Christ.

As believers today, we also have the power of the Holy Spirit to share our testimony without fear. Many times, the Lord will direct us to talk to a friend, family member, or perhaps a stranger about what Jesus has done in our lives. I was told once that my testimony should never be more than twenty-four hours old. In other words, share what Jesus is doing now in my life. Keep it current, because His grace is current.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for the power to share my testimony with others.

Saturday, December 23, 2017

Fit for a King

“And when they were come into the house, they saw the young child with Mary his mother, and fell down, and worshipped him: and when they had opened their treasurers, they presented unto him gifts; gold, and frankincense and myrrh.”  Matthew 2:11

Most Christian homes will have at least one nativity scene set up as part of their Christmas decorations. In addition to the stable with Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus, there will be shepherds with sheep, and more than likely, three wise men with their camels. This is a lovely picture and has become the traditional view of Christ’s birth.

On the night Jesus was born, the angels announced it to the shepherds, who immediately hurried to see the Messiah. They then ran to share the good news with others. The wise men, or magi, were traveling from the east using the star to guide them to the location of the new king. These men were familiar with the stories of an expected savior, probably passed down from the time and teachings of Daniel in Babylon. They were coming, as was custom, to honor the newborn king.

Because of the three types of gifts presented to Jesus, we assume that there were three wise men. Most likely, there was a caravan of several men, because the distance between home and destination was great. Upon arrival in Bethlehem, the star directed them to a house where Mary and Joseph stayed with Jesus. Though still a baby, He was no longer a newborn.

The gifts of the wise men were standard gifts to honor a king or deity in the ancient world. Gold was a precious metal. Frankincense was a perfume or incense. Myrrh was an anointing oil.

These gifts also honor Jesus in a special way as God’s son.Gold honors His kingship and divinity. Frankincense honors His priesthood. Myrrh honors His suffering and death.

What gifts can we give to honor the King? Obedience to His word and sharing His love with others. Don’t get lost in the celebration of Christmas and forget the reason He came was salvation.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for Your willingness to step down from glory to become a servant in order for me to share eternity with You.

Saturday, December 16, 2017

God's Gift


10 And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.
12 And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.”  Luke 2:8-12


The Christmas holiday brings thoughts of sharing and giving to others. Many feel compelled to donate money to charities or homeless shelters. Others volunteer time to serve meals or distribute toys to those less fortunate. The attitude of generosity and love hovers over our collective society. How I wish this could continue throughout the year and not just for a season.

Gifts – given and received – also become the focus for celebrating. Don’t lose sight of the greatest gift – God’s Son. Jesus, the promised Messiah, savior of the world.

As you gather with friends and family this year to celebrate Christmas, I challenge you to read the full account of the birth of Jesus in the second chapter of Luke. Imagine yourself on the hillside among the shepherds tending the flock of sheep. Gaze with wonder upon the angels as they announce the birth of Jesus. Rush alongside the men hurrying to the stable to find Christ the Lord, just as the angel told them. Feel the amazement, not temporary fascination, but holy wonder – adoration.

Now that you truly connect to the real reason for the season, spread the word. Tell others about this most precious gift. Ponder the meaning in an attempt to understand it. Be amazed by it. Celebrate Christ.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for giving the gift of salvation. Please help me remember the true meaning of Christmas and to spread the word.